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Archive for April, 2011

How to become… Irresistibly Attractive

No, this is NOT an article about how to attract the opposite sex. The term irresistibly attractive refers to more than that. To be irresistibly attractive means that you attract those things that you desire – great people, opportunities, ideas and more. These things COME TO YOU. You do not chase them or seduce them or force them to happen. You simply attract them in to your life. Once you learn how to become more attractive, you are like a magnet bringing more wonderful things in to your business and in to your life. Here are a few ideas to help you to become irresistibly attractive.

Realizing that the law of attraction is very powerful, you should begin by turning your attention and your intention to what you desire. This will activate the energy and vibration to bring it about. Think big, really big. Attraction occurs when there is a healthy vacuum between you and what you want to have happen. The wider the gap, the greater the pulling power of attraction.

Eliminate the holes in your life. Where are you being depleted – by whom and what? Plug those holes by extending boundaries, raising standards, resolving past issues, and getting in sync. Attraction won’t find you until you’re ready. Get ready.

Pay attention to what’s happening to you and around you right now. Attraction LIVES in the moment, not in the future. Are you responding fully to both the problems and the opportunities that are occurring right now, in your space? Gotta start here, where attraction can find you. Increase your awareness of yourself, those around you, how you think, and your life assumptions.

Add value to whomever or whatever you encounter. When you add what you have to others’ lives, you become much more attractive.
Build a reserve in all areas. When you have enough money, time, space, love, ideas, opportunities, friends, you’ll become an even stronger magnet for what you want—because you won’t NEED it.

Keep in mind, attraction always starts from your thoughts and intention about what you desire. Don’t focus on what you don’t have because it will bring more of that also. The more you become aware and use the law of attraction for what you desire in your life, the more beautiful your life will become.

Are you prepared for the unexpected?

Every day we face unexpected events in our world – devastating tornadoes in the Midwest, the volatile stock market, a massive oil spill in the Gulf, the economic collapse in Greece and Europe, and unprecedented political unrest in our own country. None of us are completely safe or shielded from unexpected events. You (your business and your thinking) will no doubt be affected by some of these events, and who knows what else? There will always be unexpected events in our lives.

Are you ready? How can you be ready? No one can prepare for the unexpected. Just the same, when unexpected events or catastrophes come into our personal and business lives, we seem to always find a way to handle them, at least to some degree. More often than not, we just adjust to living with it. We feel victimized and miserable. It doesn’t have to be that way. You can be prepared – and that means adopting the right mental perception.

Here are some ideas that may help:

  • Accept the fact that with the event will come changes, and you want those changes, as best as possible, to support you.
  • Make a conscious effort to get out of the fear of the event and what could happen.
  • Know that you always have choices on how to see the situation and how to react to it.
  • Keep in mind your ultimate goal to keep centered and in a place of happiness.

Divide a sheet of paper into two columns: (1) The Down Side of the Choice and (2) The Upside of the Choice. List at least three or more choices. As this percolates in your mind, you will be able to see it more clearly. This will help get you out of the fear, stop the negative self-talk, and allow you to be more at peace. You will then be in a position which will enable you to make a much better decision.

From this place you are better suited to do what is best for you and those about you. Once you prepare mentally and emotionally, you are now ready to set your intentions on how you would like to see it. Trust your intuition to bring you the right ideas to act upon.